7 Prayers to Strengthen Your Marriage
We often think of marriage as a contract, but on the hardest days, I’ve learned it’s actually a covenant that requires daily grace. There was a season in my own marriage where we were merely "roommates" passing in the hallway—until we stopped trying to fix each other and started praying for each other instead.
If you are looking for prayers to strengthen marriage, know that you don't need eloquent words; you just need a willing heart. Here are seven specific prayers to help you reconnect and invite peace back into your home.
7 Prayers for a Stronger Bond
1. A Prayer for Patience It is easy to snap when stress is high and sleep is low. Use this prayer when you feel your temper rising.
"Lord, grant me the patience to pause before I react. Help me to see my spouse not as an obstacle, but as my partner. Slow my anger, quiet my frustration, and help me respond with a spirit of gentleness even when I am tired."
2. A Prayer for Understanding Miscommunication is often just a missed connection. This prayer helps bridge the gap between two different perspectives.
"God, open my ears to truly hear what my spouse is saying, and open my heart to understand what they are feeling. Help me to listen without defensiveness and to value their perspective as much as my own."
3. A Prayer for Forgiveness Holding onto grudges is the quickest way to build a wall. This is one of the most vital prayers for marriage restoration.
"Father, help me to release the record of wrongs I have been keeping. Soften my heart to forgive as I have been forgiven. Remove the bitterness from my spirit and replace it with the freedom of grace."
4. A Prayer for Better Communication Words have the power to build up or tear down. Pray this to guard your tongue.
"Lord, let the words of my mouth bring life to this marriage. Help us to speak the truth in love. When we disagree, guide our conversation toward resolution and unity rather than winning an argument."
5. A Prayer for Intimacy and Connection Life gets busy, and the drift is real. This prayer focuses on emotional and spiritual closeness.
"God, bring us back to one another. Reignite the spark of friendship and romance that brought us together. Help us prioritize our time so that we can nurture our physical, emotional, and spiritual intimacy."
6. A Prayer for Gratitude It is easy to focus on what your spouse isn't doing. Shift your lens to what they are doing.
"Lord, thank You for the gift of my spouse. Help me to notice the little things they do and to vocalize my appreciation. changing my critical eye into a grateful heart today."
7. A Prayer for Unity and Protection Protect your bond from outside stressors, be it work, finances, or family drama.
"God, be the center of our home. Protect our union from the distractions and temptations of the world. Bind us together with a cord that cannot be broken, and let our marriage be a testament to Your love."
How to Use These Prayers (1-Minute Routine)
You don't need a quiet mountain retreat to use these prayers to strengthen marriage. Try this simple 1-minute routine:
Pick a Time: Right before bed or just before you leave for work.
Hold Hands: Physical touch releases oxytocin and lowers defenses.
Select One: You don't have to pray all seven! Choose the one that fits your current need (e.g., Prayer for Patience).
Read Aloud: Read the script together. It takes less than 60 seconds but sets the tone for 24 hours.
Recommended Marriage Tool
Structure helps consistency. If you want to make this a daily habit, I highly recommend using a dedicated journal.
Couple’s Prayer Journal (Amazon) This journal provides prompts and space to write down your prayers and answers, creating a beautiful keepsake of your journey together.